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Simple, memorable ways to mark the new school year.

Getting Back Into The School Groove can be stressful. Establishing fun back-to-school traditions can help you kids feel more secure as they advance to the next grade. Traditions also strengthen family bonds and create fun memories.

Having back-to-school rituals that carry over from year to year can be especially helpful for children who are nervous about starting the new school year. “Most kids feel better when they know what is coming, when they know what the expectations are”.

Traditions do not have to be complicated, time consuming or expensive to be special. They just have to be right for your family. In the upcoming posts will be some ideas for making memorable traditions when your kids return to school.

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Whether it is the first or the tenth time, leaving your child overnight often evokes excitement for you, we all need the occasional break, after all, but also guilt and worry (“Will she be OK without me?”). Your 7 or 8 year-old may have the same kinds of feelings.

Children this age are becoming more independent in all aspects of their lives. They are better able to keep track of their belongings and follow through on expectations. Their circle of friends has widened and they require less supervision. Most children love this new found freedom.

But many feel ambivalent. The world is a big place and not all adventures work out the way they had hoped. As a result, 7 and 8-year-olds commonly engage in a “push and pull” with parental attention, needing it immensely at some points and shunning it at others.

This ambivalence can make it tricky to plan an adults only outing. But doing so allows your child a safe tryout into the world of being without you. It allows him to take on additional responsibility on a short term basis, to experiment with coping skills and to deepen bonds with another caregiver.

You can deal with the guilt you may feel by remembering that you are creating learning opportunities for your child. You may also want to choose a close relative as a caregiver, like an aunt, to ease your mind. Provide suggestions for activities to the caregiver, but leave the door open for her to come up with her own spur of the moment plans. Share details about bedtime or other routines in writing. Finally, try to project confidence in your child’s ability to manage without you and in your own ability to manage without her.

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